We have all seen the wrong way to handle silverware. People holding their silverware like a spear or some other weaon or like they are playing the violin or cello. Here are the two acceptable ways to eat (American and Continental/European), and how to handle one's silverware with confidence and ease. If you don't think it is important, think again. Many view table manners as a proxy for being well-mannered in general. When you eat American style you start off holding your for